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The traditional idea of ​​surrogacy refers to the act of taking the female egg and the male semen to grow the baby in another woman’s womb (or simply using the male semen and another woman’s egg). Some people ask if natural surrogacy is possible through sexual intercourse.

I must say that making love to a woman just because you want her to carry your baby is the idea of ​​middle age. Modern surrogacy generally does not involve any sexual relationship between the surrogate mother and the man willing to be a father.

But before moving on to the next part, let’s remove some ambiguities. You should know that ‘sexual surrogacy’ is a profession and does not refer to what you mean by having sex with the surrogate mother or father.

This is what a sexual surrogate does…

In clinical terms, the sex surrogate is a member within the sex therapy group/team who engages in close physical/sexual relationships with the patient to achieve specific therapeutic goals.

The majority of pregnant women are usually women. Men become surrogates in rare cases. Would you believe that some married couples have made surrogacy their ‘profession’?

Some surrogate mothers regularly work at surrogacy counseling centers. You can also find substitutes who have opened their own offices. And when a surrogate mother works for a counseling service, her job description may include telephone counseling and/or sexological bodywork.

Today, surrogate mothers have professional certification to showcase their experience and knowledge in high-demand fields like sexuality, psychology, and counseling. Therefore, they can work hand in hand with professional psychiatrists, sexologists and psychologists or many other therapists to ensure the well-being of a given patient.

That was all about sexual surrogates, now back on topic.

In modern times, official agreements for surrogacy through direct sexual intercourse rarely exist. There are 3 basic reasons behind this.

1. Just get to the root of the problem. What is a couple about? It is about love and trust between each other. Would either partner like her partner to engage in a sexual relationship with a surrogate mother? Probably not!

2. Second, surrogacy in modern medical terms involves highly sophisticated clinical actions such as artificial insemination, intrauterine insemination, gestational surrogacy, or intracervical insemination.

On the other hand, sexual relations by surrogacy are something from medieval times, where women were chosen to have sexual relations with the man and deliver the baby to that couple in exchange for payment.

Such cases are not common these days. After all, the big idea behind the advent of sophisticated surrogacy centers was to allow people to avoid sex for surrogacy.

3. Surrogacy involves many legal problems along with super sophisticated clinical actions by highly experienced professionals. So even if you escape the involvement of medical professionals by doing so through sexual intercourse, you cannot deny the legal shackles.

And what about the emotional attachment between the surrogate mother and the baby? In sophisticated and artificial surrogacy, all this is handled through the signing of a contract and the careful selection and preparation of the donor.

Therefore, emotional bondage is carefully avoided here. But despite the fact that ‘intercourse’ sounds natural, actual intercourse has every chance of making things spiral out of control.

Surrogacy through sexual intercourse is less common.

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