How to choose your steel male chastity device
You may be wondering why a woman would choose a steel male chastity device for her husband. It is very simple. She is a smart woman!
The truth is that without male chastity, most marriages are doomed. I strongly believe that we would see divorce rates drop dramatically if all married men were to submit to the lifestyle of male chastity. The reason is that while women in general have a lot of sexual self-control, men don’t.
The only time a man is fully committed to a woman is when he is not sure if she is sexually available to him. This is why men are always romantic and highly sexual at the beginning of a relationship, but often get lazy and initiate sex less once they are married. Bottom line: to love you, he has to be denied.
Beyond that, once they are comfortable in a relationship, men often kill their libido by secretly masturbating. Most do this at least once a day; some up to four or five times a day. Obviously all that sexual energy should be directed at your partner. But instead, it often goes down the shower drain.
Male chastity is the solution because it takes away their sense of control. They no longer feel that you are always sexually available to them. They realize that they now have to “win” you if they want to have a chance at lovemaking. And they can no longer waste time, energy and libido masturbating. In short, male chastity turns them from little boys into grown men who take care of their women.
Now, when you decide to adopt the male chastity lifestyle, you will have to make a decision: do you want to buy a plastic or steel male chastity device?
In general, I think the steel devices are far superior. They are impossible for him to escape, and they make his beautiful bondage seem more “real” than a plastic one he could escape with a pair of garden shears.
But, then you have to make another choice: do you want a steel male chastity cage or a steel male chastity tube? The difference is striking, and there are pros and cons to both types of steel male chastity devices.
A steel male chastity cage is made of fine mesh that surrounds your penis and testicles. The advantage of this is that it allows you to wash your jewelry in the shower. This is important because when you are locked in a steel male chastity cage, you will be prone to chafing and infection if you don’t wash your private parts regularly.
The downside is that contact with warm water can give you more sexual stimulation than you feel comfortable giving. It gives you an illusion of a certain sexual freedom.
This is why many couples choose a steel male chastity tube instead. This is a sheaf that covers your entire penis, leaving enough room at the tip for you to sit down and urinate.
This way you can’t get any sexual stimulation at all. The downside to this is that you’ll have to take it out of the tube every few days and wash it yourself. You can’t just unblock him and tell him to wash up in the shower, because he’ll use this time to masturbate, something you should never allow!
My recommendation is to go with the tube for the added security; but I can certainly understand that some women do not want the delicate task of washing “willy” themselves.
The choice is yours.