How to get him to leave his girlfriend for you: these are the tricks that will make it possible
The question before asking HOW you can make her girlfriend leave is … WHY do you want them to split up in the first place? Consider several things before attempting to make a move.
Assess the situation.
You don’t want to be a home buster or relationship breaker no matter what your intentions are. So weigh your options carefully. Think of it this way, if you’re in their shoes, you don’t want anyone to meddle, right?
Talk to him
If he’s a friend and you’re genuinely concerned, talk to him. Let him know that you are giving him this unsolicited advice because you take care of him like a friend. Then drop the topic and don’t push it. Give him time to consider it and let him make the decision.
If you just want it for yourself then don’t hold on
Holding on and being desperate wouldn’t make him want to choose you over her. In fact, if he feels like you’re trying to tie a tight strap around his neck, he’s likely to avoid getting caught. Let it go and move on with your life.
Don’t threaten him in any way
Don’t make him choose on the spot who he’s going to stay, you or his girlfriend, because you’re likely to get hurt. And don’t say nasty things about her, even if he does.
Wait your turn
If he says he intends to break up with her anyway, then be patient. Do not enter into any kind of serious relationship with him until he does. And don’t be a friend with benefits either. If you can have them both at the same time, then you can’t expect me to give up one or the other.
Have a life and have a good time
Be confident, go out and make other friends. This is not to make you jealous, it is to open yourself up to other options and let others find you.
Let it go willingly
Don’t let your world revolve around him and don’t get obsessed with the idea that he will eventually leave you. If, once and for all, the two of you have a serious discussion about the situation, then just tell him how you feel. So let it go and move on with your life.
If she really values you, she will break up with her and haunt you. Otherwise, if he’s staying with her, then he’s not really interested in you in the first place.