Is it possible that my ex boyfriend still loves me? 5 things to look for
They have been separated for some time and are handling the breakup quite well. However, you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend; maybe you’re still in love with him. Could it be that he is also having similar feelings? You know you’d take it if you could, but you have to be careful that you’re not setting yourself up for another disaster. You need reassurance that he feels the same way, and there’s a good chance the two of you will pull it off the second time. Is it possible that my ex boyfriend still loves me?
There are telltale signs that can indicate how your ex boyfriend is feeling. Although you can never really know another person’s heart, the things that people do give indications about his true feelings. These things can be read and interpreted to give a picture of what another person is thinking inside. Just like body language. Interpretation is the key. When evaluating these actions you have to be objective. You definitely don’t want to jump to wrong conclusions, colored by your own desires, possibly leading you down the road to another unfortunate outcome.
Here are five signs that may indicate that your ex still loves you. You can never be sure, but seeing these signs may mean you may want to cautiously pursue reconciliation.
1. Your ex boyfriend is still tracking you without you knowing it.
This is more or less a dead giveaway that he still has feelings for you. Love? Maybe. Asking your friends about your well-being, having his friends bump into you ‘by chance’ and letting him know your reactions are all good signs that something is still stirring in him for you. However, you still need to be cautious. He may just be doing this out of concern for your well-being, rather than real love and a desire to reconnect with you.
2. When you meet him, remember the good times you had together.
If those happy memories of the past are on your boyfriend’s mind, chances are he’s wondering if there will be good times ahead if you get back together. Remembering these things (especially talking about them with you, his ex), is not normal behavior for an ex-boyfriend. This is a good indication that he may feel like he got ahead of himself when he broke up with you.
3. Your ex boyfriend often calls, emails, or texts you.
Usually, when a couple breaks up, they don’t want to stay connected. Frequent phone calls mean you are top of mind. In fact, if he really wanted to be away from you, he wouldn’t contact you at all, and you wouldn’t contact him.
4. Wherever you go, he is often there.
If this keeps happening more and more, then these encounters are not chance encounters, despite your protests. It knows your favorite places and waits to ‘meet’ you. He wants to be close to you, but he can’t make advances for fear of being rejected. You must realize that he knows no more about your love for him than you know about his love for you.
5. Says he’s sorry he ended the relationship.
He apologizes for the error of his ways; for breaking up with you Another definite sign that he still has a strong passion for you is that he acknowledges the mistakes he made in the relationship, even if those mistakes weren’t the reason for the breakup. This is a breakthrough for a man. Most men have a hard time admitting that they caused the problem.
Think about the actions of your ex boyfriend. Look at them from all angles. Any of these could mean more than just lingering love for you. The more of these signs you see, the stronger he will keep beating his love for you. At this point, you may want to make some headway to judge his reactions. Proceed with caution. Discuss the ground rules with each other and start a new relationship with your ex little by little. You may be happy with the result.
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