Orgasm denial techniques for men in chastity

One of the hardest things about male chastity is getting your man to stop cumming.

John, my husband and I have found an easy way to do it.

Strategy comes first, and then there are specific tactics within the strategy.

The strategy is easy: He found that it is easier for him not to have an orgasm when he imagines it as a ‘cliff’ that he is going to fall off.

And once you know where that ‘edge’ is, then it’s much easier to move away from it (obviously); but it’s also easier to avoid with back edging.

That is Really important because it means we can make love and play for a long time without having to worry about him being too turned on to continue without having an orgasm.

The trick (he says) is knowing how to find the edge, recognizing it when it’s approaching, and not flying over it in your excitement.

So now we come to orgasm denial tactics.

Remember: the point of ‘no return’ is the edge.

So as she gets closer, she mentally maps her orgasm and how far away she is from it on a path to the edge of the cliff. He literally sees this path in his mind and imagines himself walking down it.

Now if you’re going to ask me exactly how he does this, I can’t answer because I’m not in his head.

But that’s how he describes it to me and I can say two things for sure:

1. practice is needed. And you better err on the side of ‘safety’.
2. Works. The chances of John coming when he’s not supposed to are slim now. This is a Good Thing, for two reasons: first, we can have a lot more fun and do more things without worrying; and second, it makes my teasing of him so much more worthwhile because I can put more pressure on him.
3. Since we transitioned to a completely female-led relationship… John has the added incentive of knowing that I will punish him if he cums without my permission, either with a hard beating on the bench I had him build for that purpose, or an entire night kneeling by the bed pinned to the knee – post I also made him do, while I sleep.

By working as a team, and with that added incentive, it’s possible for me to push myself to that limit and come back again and again before the day is done.

And like everything, the more you do it, the better you will do.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that all or even most of the fun of chastity is in teasing and denial, because if you’re not serving her desires and worshiping her body, then you’re missing out on some of the most important . exquisite torture you can imagine.

My favorite quickly became him wearing a belt – it’s almost as good as the real thing, and certainly good enough for long-term orgasm denial. He doesn’t get the same amount of teasing or teasing as when I let him make love to me, and there’s practically no chance of him coming without my permission (because then he’d have to punish him, of course). race).

Bottom line: your man does not need for orgasm

He may want to do it, and there are reasons why you can sometimes allow it (and some devilish ways to do it for him), but when it comes down to it, he doesn’t. need to orgasm, ever.

This is what John and I are after, and we’re both very excited about the whole thing.

No date yet, but we’re getting close to some odds.

One thing to be careful about is not to have too high expectations and think that both of you are going to get it right the first time. We have been in the chastity lifestyle for 13 years, and John gave me the oath of obedience from him in April 2019, so it takes practice and patience.

Don’t be fooled by the hype and nonsense that you have no doubt already come across on the internet. If it sounds unreal, it probably is.