The lifestyle of male chastity and its emotions

A common misunderstanding about the male chastity lifestyle it is that it is only about two things: sex and submission. And while this may be the main concern for some people, in my experience, both in my own life and with the men and women I’ve talked to about it, the truth is often somewhat different. There is no doubt that most relationships when established in the thick of real, mundane life experience a marked reduction in sexual activity, both in terms of frequency and duration. What’s more, our raw, naked lust tends to wane, so unless we make a concerted effort to make it otherwise, we also generally become less adventurous. In some couples, sex becomes, in the words of many women, “A homework“.

Sex!

Now, it would be a mistake to think that simply having more sex is the answer. It can certainly be, but even this is more difficult than it seems. Having hot sex, breaking the bed and breaking the mattress when you “make” yourself do it in the hope of fixing things is no mean feat. And this is where the male chastity lifestyle can make a real difference, though not necessarily for the reasons you might think. It is true that your man will be hornier because he will have fewer orgasms. Not only that, but because he has to please you in other ways, he’s going to be even hornier than he would be if he were only deprived of his orgasms (you won’t believe how turned on your man will get when he’s pleasuring you with his tongue!) , and the knowledge that her own orgasm is not in the cards is in the front of her mind).

But real benefit and the reason you hear all the stories about how loving, caring and lusty your man becomes is the emotions it stirs up in both of you. You see, what you are doing, among other things, is recovering the intimacy of the first days. That, in turn, heightens all those delicious emotions: love, attraction, warmth, fun, and everything in between.

Shipment!

The second part of the common misconception is submission. Not all men become submissive when they adopt the male chastity lifestyle. Some do, of course, and some women like that. But in my experience, again, most men don’t, which is a good thing because most women don’t like it. what we do as he is a man who is considerate, trusting, caring, caring and caring but without being weak, annoying and like a big spoiled child. Very unattractive, right girls?

Now, a woman’s emotions tend to be more complex than a man’s. And when you first adopt the male chastity lifestyle, they can be very fragile and changeable because you’re not quite sure what to expect. On the one hand, you may be nervous: despite reading this article, despite your partner’s assurances, you are still I’m not sure it’s not a little… weird. Let’s be honest. It’s all new to you, from what you know, it means a massive change, and you’re not 100% sure where the male chastity lifestyle will take you.

However, there is the sheer power of your femininity!

Yes, that rush of power. The same one you got when you first realized the power of the little black dress when you walked a certain way past the men who couldn’t take their eyes off you… well, it’s like that again. When you’ve got your man turned on in such a state that he can’t tell the top of him from the bottom of him and he’s begging and begging you to let him have an orgasm, and you know he’s not going to get mad or sulk when you say “NO!“, because it is something that he has begged you to do to him, so you feel that rush of power.

And you can feel a little guilty, a little naughty, like you’ve done something you shouldn’t, like you’re enjoying something exquisitely “naughty” that no “nice girl” would ever dream of. You can’t help but get a hold of that feeling, but you can decide what to do about it, how to react. And the best way to react?

enjoy it. Enjoy it.

Because this emotional and horny surge is one of the main unspoken benefits of the male chastity lifestyle… and once you’ve tried it, you won’t want to go back to the old way of life ever again… and neither is your man.