How to deal with negative feelings when someone else hurts you

How does a Christian really handle negative feelings and emotions when
begin to settle down as a result of being wronged by others, especially
if the evil has been vicious and unpleasant?

The Bible tells us that God is asking all of His people to live in a
higher level than the unbeliever. The Bible tells us to forgive those
that offend us, to turn the other cheek when necessary, to love
our enemies and do good to those who deliberately hurt us. God is like that
insists that we be able to forgive those who hurt us – that He says
us that He will not even hear our prayers if we have any
lack of forgiveness towards others who have wronged us

However, we all know from real life experiences that this is easier
said than done. How do you really deal with negative feelings like
anger, bitterness, the desire to seek revenge, and sometimes directly
hatred towards another person who has viciously wronged you?

How do you manage and control these types of negative feelings when:

• Some drunk driver just killed your spouse, son or daughter.
• Someone has raped or sexually abused you.
• Someone has kidnapped and murdered your son or daughter like some of the cases we are seeing in the news.
• Your husband has been physically and/or verbally abusing you for years.
• You just found out that your spouse has been cheating on you.

All of the above scenarios are torpedo shots that can take down most of us.

the land. However, how do we handle these adversities and how do we bounce back

returning from them will determine the quality of time we still have

left here on this earth.

If you don’t control these negative emotions when they start to
try to settle inside as a result of taking one of these
kind of vicious blows – then those negative feelings and emotions
start to eat you alive inside, in the same way that cancer
it can devastate and tear apart a human body.

Some Christians will even begin to lose their faith in God. they get angry
to God – wondering why God would allow something so bad to happen to them.
way.

If you want a good perspective from God’s perspective exactly
how a christian can handle this kind of vicious shot and still live
this life the way God wants you to live it – go to the link below
in the resource box.

This article will give you a good “one-two hit” answer from God.
perspective and all the appropriate Bible verses to support this
keen insight. The Bible says that the truth will set you free, but you
I have to knowing what that truth is and being willing to work with that truth
Before I can really set you free The Bible says that we are
transformed by the renewing of our minds. For many Christians, their
minds are I sell with “wrong thinking” – and therefore are being
prevented from being able to live this life to its fullest potential
in God.