How To Make A Guy Last More Than 30 Seconds – Tips For Girls!

Does your man not last long enough to please you? If that’s the case, then read this article. Soon I will tell you exactly how to train your man so that he lasts long enough to completely satisfy you. First, we’ll cover how you can use foreplay to BEG him into you. Next, we’ll talk about things you can do, together, DURING sex to help you last longer. Finally, we’ll talk about how to help train him to last longer every time he has sex.

Goal First…

First, there is something you must understand. DON’T judge your man! Ending premature ejaculation is something many men have to deal with. Help him through this difficult time, have a little patience and soon you will have the best sex of your life.

Step 1: How to use foreplay to make it last longer

The more foreplay you both have, the more aroused you’ll be when he enters you, and the less stimulation you’ll need from him to come. He gently guides your man to the spots on his body that YOU would like to have touched. Drop hints about how he loves you when he kisses your neck, or loves how he gently strokes your thigh, or whatever you want.

Anyway, here’s the trick:

Make it slow down

Rushed foreplay can be exciting at times, but in many cases, it will make your man come fast.

So with this in mind, ask him to slow down. Encourage him to take a deep breath into his belly, which will spread the sexual energy upward from where it’s concentrated in his groin (too much energy there = gets there in 30 seconds!) to spread throughout his body.

Tell him how sexy he is when he’s relaxed and take it easy to start with, taking his time to caress and kiss every square inch of your skin. The more relaxed you can get it, the longer it will last once you start having sex!

Step 2: Quick Strategy – Position Changes, Changing it!

The typical advice for men to last longer is something like this:

let the woman be upstairs

This is good advice, as you can control the stimulation (focusing on it hitting the spots you like) and you’ll be more relaxed and less likely to have the buildup of tension that leads to premature ejaculation.

Also remind him how much you love it when he sucks and pleases you orally. This provides a nice rest for us men when we find ourselves about to cum. It’s a great strategy as you still get pleasure while he can cool off a bit and prepare to hit you again.

Step 3: New age… Breathing together for a deep sexual connection

It can be incredibly sexy to slow everything down, stop pushing, but keep it deep inside you, and just look into each other’s eyes!

This will connect both of you deeply with the present moment and with each other.

Once you have made this connection, while looking into each other’s eyes, BREATHE together. She feels how their bellies rise and fall in unison, while the souls of others look at each other.

I know it sounds a bit new, but give it a try! You will become so relaxed, in tune, and in the moment, that you will have no problem lasting much longer.

Finishing things…

So there you have it. Now you know how to use foreplay to help your guy last more than a few seconds. You also know how to change positions, AND a somewhat unusual ‘deep’ sex technique you can try TONIGHT, to help your man give you the sex you want. Good luck!